the truth is... Most but not all people approaches you whenever they need your help they would just create thoudsands of lies as the "reasons" of not finding you Also, they would just say anything to convince you so that you help them without saying anything what's worse, they don't even think of a lie
You do it or don't you would just choking with your own contradiction- doing it makes you feel like an idiot being selfish you might feel bad or course you might say just ignore it, but then if you are the one who is not that charismatic, you will become a big bad guy unless you like to be isolated this leads to another truth
people tends to follow crowds..i.e they adopt utilitarianism if majority says 1+1 =3, others would just agree and follow without doubt again this leads to another truth
silence is gold if you are the minority,you will be treated as the anti-majority people always says, majority wins this is what untilitarianism shows
to overcome this, remaining silence is the best way don't ever try to speak unless it is necessary the main role of your mouth is not talking the so called crap think more, speak less, trouble less
everyone has at least two "faces" it is just depending on which dominant which sometimes people tends to create a "new face" themselves this new face will become one of the faces over time so schizorphrenia should be normal for everyone but how would you hide it,pretend it,show it is another story.........